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During these past few weeks I’ve taken things more seriously than I would normally. I’ve been putting life into perspective in more of the permanent state, knowing that the decisions I make in the near future will be those I have to live with the longest. I have been paying closer attention to those around me and actually seeing who will be in for the long-haul and just not seasonal. My actions haven’t changed, just my thoughts. In doing this I’ve thought a lot about my love life and how many major twists and turns it has encountered over the years. I’ve went from never knowing love even exists to being head-over-heels with someone I’ve known for years to not being with anyone and falling in love because I was too afraid of titles and being in love again and not knowing if it’s safe just yet to now just…

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Sincerely Yours, Truly- Kel

Sincerely Yours, Truly is a composition I can listen to from beginning to end. Kel, an Alexandria, Louisiana native, is quickly growing into his identity as a very strong lyricist. His versatility has expanded even more so in this release. There are more “colors” of him available to the fans and more perspective injected on Sincerely Yours, Truly. The mixtape itself could not be more appropriately titled. Kel dedicates every piece of work to his fans, and shows the utmost gratitude for the support he gets as a positive artist and an advocate of substance. Each track on this mixtape bears a piece of the listener somewhere laced in the verse, which adds to the appeal of the Louisiana rapper.

“Opinions” provides insight to Kel’s private thoughts on the life many rappers ramble about while pretending to be on a grind. This is one motivated artist I can personally say works for each bit of success he sees. No hype here. Kel is on the path to becoming one of hip hop’s resurrectors.

“2^nd Wind” is an infectious vintage swing vibe featuring Mississippi artist Trey Parker (@treyparkermusic) who has shared many stages and a very impactful grassroots video last year. Both have passion and motivation that resonate all throughout.

“Paper Heart” is a hidden gem on SYT. This acoustic piece is laced with what seems like a bit of Kel’s conscience and give off the vibe that would have me sitting on my sun porch, toasted, and swimming in deep thought.

“Take Caution” reminds me of the conversation most nice guys have to themselves amidst a situation that is one of those “new” situations that can potentially change character’s direction. Kel yet again branches out extending his flow to a personal lesson direction that hip hop has not seen from too many southern rappers.

“Song We Sing” is placed to remain with me as the Kel vibe with Aaliyah lulling in the background vocals, my favorite line is on this track where Kel spits,

“There’s more to life than the project vision”…!

“Project X2” is a bonus cut that chronicles a party that without a doubt is an experience to even those that only heard about it. If you weren’t there, you really missed everything…period.

Following him is a sure way to see someone make a career from a dream. Follow him on twitter @kelmusic12 and join those that have been hit by his talent. 

 download Sincerely Yours, Truly here: http://www.datpiff.com/KEL-Sincerely-Yours-Truly-mixtape.345154.html

I succeeded

Today I cashed my check and emptied her cash drawer..and then some. #blessed

The way I see it

The only things worse than having your heart broken are the casualties that previously bound you. Love is a battlefield and we all show cuts and bruises. Just stop living the same thing over and over. I’m giving it all back…now PUSH

-The Management

Vocal Legend Whitney Houston Dead at 48

I as a musician I am heartbroken by news of Whitney’s death. She has inspired so many young voices. In my opinion, a great part of the music industry has died. Visit Definitelyglam.com for developments- Mateo José Lopez 

 

 

LOS ANGELES — Whitney Houston, who ruled as pop music’s queen until her majestic voice and regal image were ravaged by drug use, erratic behavior and a tumultuous marriage to singer Bobby Brown, has died. She was 48.

Houston’s publicist, Kristen Foster, said Saturday that the singer had died, but the cause and the location of her death were unknown.

News of Houston’s death came on the eve of music’s biggest night — the Grammy Awards. It’s a showcase where she once reigned, and her death was sure to case a heavy pall on Sunday’s ceremony. Houston’s longtime mentor Clive Davis was to hold his annual concert and dinner Saturday; it was unclear if it was going to go forward.

At her peak, Houston the golden girl of the music industry. From the middle 1980s to the late 1990s, she was one of the world’s best-selling artists. She wowed audiences with effortless, powerful, and peerless vocals that were rooted in the black church but made palatable to the masses with a pop sheen.

Her success carried her beyond music to movies, where she starred in hits like “The Bodyguard” and “Waiting to Exhale.”

She had the he perfect voice, and the perfect image: a gorgeous singer who had sex appeal but was never overtly sexual, who maintained perfect poise.

She influenced a generation of younger singers, from Christina Aguilera to Mariah Carey, who when she first came out sounded so much like Houston that many thought it was Houston.

But by the end of her career, Houston became a stunning cautionary tale of the toll of drug use. Her album sales plummeted and the hits stopped coming; her once serene image was shattered by a wild demeanor and bizarre public appearances. She confessed to abusing cocaine, marijuana and pills, and her once pristine voice became raspy and hoarse, unable to hit the high notes as she had during her prime.

“The biggest devil is me. I’m either my best friend or my worst enemy,” Houston told ABC’s Diane Sawyer in an infamous 2002 interview with then-husband Brown by her side.

Let’s Talk Beauty With A’kira Pollard

 

Now more than ever women are often pressure to maintain a certain standard of beauty. They are told that the way that they were born is not good enough and that they should forever work towards being something that they are not. The magazines tell us that we are suppose to be skinny with long hair and the music videos say that we need a big butt. That is why the industry of Beauty will always be in demand. Some women will put off paying their car note to make sure their weave is right. This week we will talk about the media and men influence over the way women see themselves. A’kira gives us a little incite on her view of women and the pressures to be beautiful. Click read more for our interview.

As you can see A’kira is very beautiful young lady that is in the field of beauty. Women come to everyday to make them look like a star. What their hair can’t achieve on their own, A’kira just uses a weave. She sat down with us to discuss how she feels about women being pressure to look a certain way in today’s world of beauty.

How long have you been doing hair?
About 7 years

What do you like most about doing hair?

What I like most about doing hair is making my client feel like the Queen or King he or she is. A simple manicure could do the trick but whatever it takes to let my client know that my job is my passion and their beauty is fundamental means the world to me. I may be young but I understand that their is a world wide struggle and though my job might not be important to some, I know that I can make a difference in society with my gift. And that is my motivation and drive everyday.

What are your specialties?

Eye lash applications, waves, eye brow arching, sew-in’s, and sister curls

What styles are you asked to do most?
A: Surprisingly I have been asked to cut natural hair & weaves into a bob similar to Toya’s from B.E.T.’s “A Family Affair.” As beautiful as the style is I always try to lean more towards a style that fits the client’s face and lifestyle. The client is always right so I make sure that they leave happy and beautiful. Another style is a long layered cut similar to R&B star Ciarra. That particular style can fit almost every client and is simply and classy.


How do you feel the media influences styles that women choose?
A: The media to me is just like a woman’s man. I feel as if they aim to please others less than themselves. For example, many women are comfortable with their hair- washed, cut, and curled in an elegant and natural manner. Unfortunately most will hop on the latest trend like their is no tomorrow. A woman with long beautiful hair will chop off her hair to accomplish a style that Halle Berry is currently rocking that the media loves. To me its crazy yet I understand a woman’s yearn to feel accepted, attractive, and appreciated in society.

Have you ever had any self esteem issues because you were trying to please a man or maybe live up to the media’s standards?

Being that I’m only 19 I haven’t ran into any serious issues with self esteem regarding a pleasing a man or the media. However, I had a little run in with an ex who stated that “if you looked like this when we were dating we would still be together.” I’m glad I dodged that bullet! I see my clients come in and out with photos of celebs that the media loves or that their man requested. Their is nothing wrong with that but I always aim to please them and not the media or their man.

How can you be reached?
I can be reached by email at pollard_akira@yahoo.com, by phone at 318-805-6433, or at Pat Goins Beauty School in Monroe, LA in the East Gate shopping center Tuesday-Saturday from 8am-4pm.

This young lady is going places. Please join us Wednesday at 10pm central to discuss “Are Women Pressured to Have a Certain Look to Get A Man?” call in and listen at 9093628212 or right here on http://www.definitelyglam.com

BasketBall Wives Season 4 Premier Party at Pie Works

The Basketball Wives Season 4 Live premier party will be the event of the year! Their will be door prizes, contests during every commercial break and gift bags for each lady that attends. We encourage our guests to dress like their favorite Basketball Wife. There will be prizes during commercial breaks with Best Dressed, Best Hair, and Best Accessory contests. This is set to be a night of fun, food, and prizes. All we are missing is you!

When: February 20, 2012
Where: Pie Works 2252 Tower Dr, Monroe, LA 71201
Time: 7:30 pm to 9:00 pm

Did Tamar and Her Fans Wish Someone Dead?

Now we all have discussed whether or not Tamar has turned into a mean girl or not but on January 12 Brittany experienced first hand what can happen if you miss with Mrs. Braxton. Brittany states that her friend used her phone and tweeted Tamar that she would never be Beyonce and then things got real. She states that Tamar and her fans began to attach her and wishing her mom DEAD. Click read more to listen to the full interview

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Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Incorporated makes 104 years look good!

I would like to personally take time out of my schedule to wish all the lovely ladies of AKA a happy Founder’s Day! It is truly a blessing to know and love members of all NINE organizations of the National Pan-Hellenic Council. 

A little about AKA

Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Incorporated was founded on January 15, 1908 in Miner Hall on the campus of Howard University. 

Ethel Hedgeman Lyle returned from the summer after her sophomore year with a vision. With the help of two faculty members, she  was able to create the first Black Greek-letter sorority. This organization began on the premises of scholarship, service and sisterhood. It was a way to unify college women and support the Black community at a time when the United States was segregated and unequal.